Tuesday, June 30, 2009
My mother died 20 years ago on June 30, 1989.
While I understand my sister's desire to honor our mother, that day (and it's memories) still hold so much pain for me.
I was the only one in the room the moment our mother passed away...a twenty year old girl, a sophomore in college, home for the summer, who had been told only three days earlier in a doctor's office that her mother was not going to get better and would be gone very soon. How soon, less than a week, was still a shock to us all. Nowadays one would have an easy time finding information on liver cancer on the Internet, but that was not the case back then. In my naive and young mind, she had already "beaten" breast cancer, so why should this be any different?
That morning, as her breathing labored, I really had no idea what was going on. I was alone and afraid. I wanted someone to explain what was happening and to hold me. However, that did not happen. As I panicked and cried, I missed the chance to calmly take my mother's hand, comfort her, let her know that everything was going to be okay, and tell her I loved her for the last time. I will always regret this even though I know that she knew.
That day was when I lost my sense of security...my belief that there would be someone to take care of and to comfort me.
Today, June 30th 2009, my mother has now been out of my life exactly as long as she was in it and I feel as alone today as I was then.
But instead of a low tire (which should be cause enough to check out anyways!) one of my front tires had exposed frayed steel wires and a flapping section of loose tire! The tread separation was so bad that I could almost slide my hand in one side, go under the tread and out the other side! The only other time I had seen the inner workings of a tire like this was after it was in pieces littering the highway. I was this-close to being one of those blowouts. As this was before my appointment I put it in the back of my mind until I was done. Then I had to decide what to do.
Would this tire allow me to get closer to home or blowout on the highway? Since I wasn't familiar with the area I couldn't take the chance of just driving around looking for someplace so I called my mechanic and they gave me the location of the nearest Goodyear Tire, luckily, just two exits away.
However, while they took care of me I was missing work at the job where I get paid by the hour. Earlier in the day I had to turn down a free lunch at work because I couldn't spare the time to go because I traded my lunch hour in order to make the doctors appointment. I wouldn't have been able to make up that time too AND we were going to be closed this Friday for the holiday.
So, today's realization is...
- no free lunch today,
- minus three hours of today's pay,
- minus $170 dollars for two* new tires and installation,
- and minus one full days pay this week.
- Rent is also due this weekend! Arrggghhh....
I knew the tires needed replacing, believe me, these babies are really old (the mechanic was shocked just how old!) but I just haven't had the money and couldn't face putting them on one of the credit cards. So, like an idiot I pretty much put my life in jeopardy. Even after hydroplaning two months ago in barely-there rain because of how bad the tread was.
I have to do something about money, if only to take care of my car, such as getting two more tires and a long put-off tune-up for my 14 year old car with 70,000 miles on it, that I can't afford to lose. This money situation is serious, I need to make more money to avoid more situations like this.
* the other tire had already been patched two times so it was about time for it too!
Thursday, June 25, 2009
If not, get ready for a real treat. I discovered this one from following a link from Sal to her friend Audra, who just happens to be the author of Fashion for Nerds. I want almost everything in her closet! Her style is unique, colorful, fun, and totally covetable. Isn't that how you would want someone to describe your style?
I really like how she has highlighted small designers that I knew nothing about, like Skin Graft (WOW!), Attila Designs, or Shawna Hoffman. In addition, she already wears stuff from companies I love (but have never bought from...yet), like Red Dress Shoppe, Fluevog and Cydwoq.
Here are just a few favorite outfits:
Monday, June 22, 2009
As a long-time crafter I'm also a big fan of functional pockets in clothes and I could see the denim version of the skirt as a great work-outfit for crafting. So that's why a denim version was the first one I made.
I found a great Lycra-infused 6 oz. Sew Classic indigo denim at Jo Anns on sale. I followed the instruction to the T except for the pockets. Using the pattern's layout, the pockets ended up being too effected by the stretch in the denim and stretched out of shape. Eventually I'll cut another set out and put them on the skirt.
I love this skirt, I love how it doesn't even look like a typical wrap skirt. The center pleat fools you into thinking it's a regular skirt while the gathered back almost completely camouflages the wrap portion. (Especially if this was made in a floral pattern) And, about the "wrap factor?" Very good! There is basically a double layer of skirt there in the back so there is no lack of coverage. Also in a fabric with heft like this denim the lower layer sort of serves as a petticoat. I think this skirt would be quite fetching in a silk shantung or taffeta. Affordable yet lovely skirts for bridesmaids, perhaps?
The only (small) problems I had was with the pattern itself. The pattern is just four pieces and the two main portions of the skirt are fashioned so that their seam is visible through the center pleat. I'm not a fan of that but yes, it's a small quibble.
I hope to make quite a few of these. I already have a gorgeous purple linen ready for making another one of these, so I think I will change the pattern accordingly. This was an easy sew, the only time-consuming detail was the hand sewing of the hem.
Friday, June 19, 2009
After a false alarm on Route 301, where I saw a metal bustled dress form* that turned out to be $225, I came across this sweet model in Carroll's Antiques. How lucky was I to see this one, suspiciously in my size?
(Though my friend Michelle said the forms' waist was smaller. Thanks Michelle! Though I have to admit, looking at it now, I would most definitely have to pad the rear!)
Not much, as the owner uses it for display and would not part with it for less than $250. While in good shape (and in my size!) there was no way I was paying that! I suppose if I were a collector...but then again, the adjustable-height metal one by the side of the road was a much better specimen for around the same price. A little de-rusting and it would have been a great conversation piece.
Other fashion-related items seen in Historic Fredericksburg:
Velvet and tulle costume
This wonderful costume immediately made me think of A Midsummer's Night Dream. That multi-colored tulle skirt was beautiful in person.
Brocade wedding (?) ensemble
*I tried to find an example online but after the 7th page of images I gave up.
Wednesday, June 17, 2009
The yellow dress:
Burdastyle Anda dress:
For the first time, I bound the neckline and arms with bias binding and am very happy with how well it turned out. I usually use facings for this type of thing.
Tuesday, June 16, 2009
Oh, but wait, my TV set is only 13". I don't even have fun watching movies on it, so how can I expect other people to? So what do you think of me asking one of my "guests" to host it at their house? How tacky is that? Should I try to subtly get them to think it was all their idea?
I hope to use this one similar dress to correct the armscye of Simplicity 4429
I keep finding examples of this particular skirt style with the center pleat. Below is a picture I saved from the Lucky magazine website. Too cute.
Sunday, June 14, 2009
Friday, June 12, 2009
1. On various sites I have seen that the costumes (more about those later) worn by Cate Blanchett were to die for and...
2. on Kay's blog I found a quote from the movie that really spoke to me; especially this bit:
"...I hope you live a life you're proud of. If you find that you're not, I hope you have the strength to start all over again."
I think I want to start over.
Image: Jacqueline West costume design sketch
Wednesday, June 10, 2009
I wrote about this top before when I first made it but I was never happy with the fit. Though you might not be able to see the difference this top has now been taken in quite a bit at the sides, the neckline width was reduced, the length was cropped, and it received an entirely new facing. I think the most noticeable change is the detail down the front. That was were I had to take a vertical tuck in the front because the neckline was far too wide to be comfortable or to keep from slipping off my shoulders!
I think I now know that I won't be making any more outfits from McCall's 8251 though I still love the "idea" of it so much. Trying to alter this pattern to make it workable has thoroughly frustrated me. I even thought I could find the pattern in the next smallest size and go from there but there is something odd enough about the sleeves and armholes that I'm not sure that would even work.
Mosaic created with fd's Flickr Toys.
Tuesday, June 09, 2009
I took pictures of this dress too. Again, forthcoming...
Thursday, June 04, 2009
New Look 6939
A little OOP shift dress pattern, New Look 6939, that I love is now in the running to be made out of this Alexander Henry Chocolate Mocca print I bought two years ago.
I had been waiting for the right pattern and I had it all along. I was going to use S4429 but why mess around with pattern alterations when I KNOW I love this pattern AND that it will fit straight from the envelope? In fact, since I made the first dress over 5 years ago in leaf green linen, I've gained a bit of weight and the fit is different on me, less smock-like. I really like it now. And did you see where it says Easy and 2-Hour? Hey, it's calling my name!
Fabric image: Cia's Palette